Here’s a brief step-by-step guide to separate tie rods.
First, mark the exposed threads, the jam nut, and the inner tie rod. The marks help you know the position of the nut in relation to the rest of the parts so you can match them up when you put them back together.
You can also count how many exposed threads you have. It’s an indicator of how far you must screw the tie rod to get it in the same position as before.
Break loose the tie rods (inner and outer) BEFORE removing the outer tie rod end from the knuckle so the whole piece—inner + outer tie rods—won’t flop around while trying to break it loose.
Put the concave bit horizontally—as much as possible—against the outer tie rod next to the jam nut and an open end wrench on the inner tie rod or the jam nut—if the nut is tight.
Press the trigger and turn the wrench to loosen the tie rods, but don’t loosen them too much.
Lastly, count how many turns it takes to remove the outer tie rod so you can put it back in the same spot—for alignment reasons.